I wanted so much for someone to love me, that I forgot to love myself

I wanted so much for someone to love me, that I forgot to love myself

The concept of self-love is often overlooked in our society, as we are constantly bombarded with messages that tell us we need to seek validation and love from others in order to feel complete. This can lead to a dangerous cycle of seeking external validation and approval, rather than focusing on cultivating a deep sense of self-worth and self-love.

When we place all of our worth and value in the hands of others, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment and heartache. We become dependent on others to make us feel loved and accepted, rather than learning to love and accept ourselves unconditionally. This can lead to feelings of insecurity, low self-esteem, and a constant need for validation from others.

In the pursuit of finding someone to love us, we often forget to love ourselves. We neglect our own needs, desires, and well-being in favor of seeking approval and validation from others. We may compromise our values, beliefs, and boundaries in order to please others, sacrificing our own happiness and self-respect in the process.

Learning to love ourselves is a journey that requires self-reflection, self-awareness, and self-compassion. It means accepting ourselves for who we are, flaws and all, and recognizing our own inherent worth and value. It means setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and treating ourselves with kindness and respect.

When we learn to love ourselves, we no longer rely on others to validate our worth or make us feel complete. We are able to stand confidently in our own truth, knowing that we are enough just as we are. We are able to cultivate healthy, fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect, trust, and love, rather than seeking validation and approval from others.