Dear boys, I'm not a backup plan and definitely not a second choice

Dear boys, I'm not a backup plan and definitely not a second choice

Dear boys,

I am writing this letter to make something very clear to you: I am not a backup plan and I am definitely not a second choice. As a strong girl, I know my worth and I refuse to settle for anything less than I deserve.

I have spent too much time in the past being someone's second choice, someone they turn to when their first option falls through. I have been the one waiting by the phone, hoping for a text or a call that never comes. I have been the one who puts in all the effort, only to be left feeling unappreciated and undervalued.

But those days are behind me now. I have learned to love and respect myself enough to walk away from anyone who sees me as anything less than their first choice. I refuse to be someone's backup plan, someone they can turn to when it's convenient for them.

I am a strong girl, with a strong sense of self-worth. I know that I deserve to be someone's first choice, their priority, their everything. I refuse to settle for anything less than that.

So, boys, if you are not willing to give me the love and respect that I deserve, then I suggest you move along. I am not interested in being anyone's second choice. I am not interested in being anyone's backup plan.

I am a strong girl, and I know my worth. I will not settle for anything less than I deserve. So if you want to be a part of my life, you better be ready to give me your all. Because I am not interested in anything less.

Sincerely,
A strong girl who knows her worth