I despise meeting new people

I despise meeting new people

As an introvert, I have always despised meeting new people. The thought of having to engage in small talk, make a good impression, and navigate through social interactions fills me with dread. While some people thrive in social settings and enjoy meeting new faces, I find it to be a draining and anxiety-inducing experience.

One of the main reasons I despise meeting new people is the pressure to make a good first impression. I often find myself overthinking every word I say and every action I make, worried that I will come across as awkward or unlikeable. This fear of judgment and rejection can make meeting new people feel like a daunting task.

Additionally, I struggle with small talk and find it to be superficial and unfulfilling. I would much rather engage in deep, meaningful conversations with people I already know and trust. Small talk feels forced and insincere to me, and I often find myself struggling to find common ground with strangers.

Another reason I despise meeting new people is the uncertainty of how they will perceive me. Will they like me? Will they judge me? Will they understand me? These questions swirl around in my mind, causing me to feel anxious and self-conscious. This fear of not being accepted or understood can make meeting new people feel like a risky and uncomfortable experience.

Despite my aversion to meeting new people, I recognize the importance of expanding my social circle and building connections with others. I have learned to push past my discomfort and anxiety in order to meet new people and form meaningful relationships. While it may never be my favorite activity, I have come to understand the value of meeting new people and the opportunities for growth and connection that it can bring.